Sunday, June 26, 2005

Tastes In Music

 

Yesterday I really enjoyed reading Laurie's Musings.  She wrote about her eclectic taste in music; how she grew up influenced by music from many generations.  That's the way it was for me, too.  Personally I think everyone should at least be exposed to lots of types and generations of music. You never know what you might have missed out on otherwise.

I am the youngest of seven, born in 1966.  My parents were in their forties when I was born.  My oldest sister was 18.  The sister closest to me in age was 6.  So I grew up listening to music from my parents' generation -- music of the thirties and forties, including big band music, The Andrew's Sisters, Bing Crosby, Gene Autry and Tex Ritter, and the list could go on........

But then I was also exposed to music from the fifties -- Elvis (although none of my siblings were huge Elvis fans my one and only sister-in-law was!), Fats Domino, Bill Haley and the Comets, The Sons of the Pioneers, Sonny James and that list could go on; music from the sixties -- The Beatles, The Beach Boys, The Byrds, The Hollies, The Kingston Trio, Peter, Paul and Mary, etc...........; then I was growing up in the seventies and eighties and liked a broad spectrum of music then, too.  I listen to a lot of the groups my 15 year old listens to, and sometimes it freaks out his friends!

I can remember an old victrola that my Dad had that played the old cylindar records.  I can't remember what we listened to on it, though.  I think some of them were recordings from old radio shows.  I remember a line from one of them that went: "I'll meet you at the train station.  If you get there first, draw a line in the dirt.  If I get there first, I'll rub it out!"  He also had a lot of old 78 records.  I remember one that he had that had polka music on it.  He taught me and my oldest niece (only three years younger than me) how to polka and we would dance around the living room to it.

I like most old country and western music and some new country; I like Bluegrass, folk, big band, show tunes, some blues, some classical, some jazz, old rock and roll, classic seventies rock, eighties music (especially from my high school years!), and quite a bit of nineties and contemporary music.  I guess the only music I don't really care for is most hip hop (rap) music.  If it's clean and catchy, then I can handle it.  But so much of it isn't clean, and I really don't like the hip hop lifestyle. 

Oh well, just thought I'd share my eclectic taste in music as well.  Thank you Laurie.  You made me think of some artists and songs that I hadn't thought of in awhile.

One Day At A Time

"I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once." -- Ashleigh Brilliant

That's how I've felt all this week.  I am definitely behind on just about everything I should be doing and need to do here at the house!

I've been feeling all week that Eler Beth is needing some extra attention from me, so I thought Saturday afternoon maybe she and I could go do something together.  When I asked her what she'd like to do she said, "Go shopping!"  I didn't know it but Thomas had been thinking that she was acting like she needed a little more attention from him also, and he also wanted to get Andrew out to do something, so he asked them if they'd like to go night fishing Friday night.  They did, and I had the house to myself all Friday evening and night, but I didn't get too much done.  I had to work Saturday morning, so I knew I couldn't stay up too late without paying for it.

They got in Saturday morning about 4:30 with seven very large catfish!  They were Blue Cats -- good eatin'!  They dragged all their stuff in and collapsed into bed; except for Eler Beth!  She kept coming in our room to tell me that she couldn't sleep!  When I got up  to go to work she was still up and she had woke up Andrew so he and she could play a game.  Thomas got up too and was getting prepared to take pictures of the fish.  I'll try to post some here soon.  I went to work for four hours, grabbed some lunch and came home.  When I got home all three of them were asleep.  That sounded like a good idea to me, too, so I climbed into bed beside my hubby and took me a little nap, too!

When I got up they were cleaning the fish; then Eler Beth and I got cleaned up and went to the mall.  We hit Kay-B toys first, then Walden Books, then mosied along to all our other favorites.  I came out of it pretty good.  I don't think I spent quite a hundred!  I got this neat book at Walden Books that was on clearance: THE COMPLETE BOOK OF CREATIVE SCRAPBOOKING, like I really need another one!  But it has a nice section in it on "altering books", and I've been wanting to try that.  When I'll have the time is another question!

Everyone slept well last night, needless to say.  We made it to the meeting this morning, grabbed somelunch and came on home. I have done three loads of laundry, and that is about the extent of the housework I've done this weekend!  Thomas has cooked, Andrew has done the dishes, and Eler Beth keeps dragging things out of her room because she wants to rearrange things.  It's absolutely too hot and humid to go outside.  With the heat index it is 104* out there!  I'm going to clean my bathroom, and everything else can wait for tomorrow!  Too hot to walk, so it's crunches again tonight! 

Friday, June 24, 2005

Thursday Book Talk on Friday

POWDER AND PATCH

Powder and Patch was orginally published under the title THE TRANSFORMATION OF PHILLIP JETTAN, and I wish they'd kept the original name because that's exactly what the book is about.  This was published in 1923, and Heyer did so under the name Stella Martin. 

Powder and Patch is very warm, light and funny; there is nothing deep or serious about it, yet it does have a moral: the person within is more important than what you see on the outside.  Phillip is a very good, hard-working man and dutiful son. Yet his father wishes he could be just a little more like he had been in his own youth; a little wilder.  Phillip has been in love with Cleone, a neighbor, all his life.  She returns home all grown up and fashionable and is a little scornful of her "country bumpkin" friend of her childhood.  Actually, she cares for him, but has become accustomed to being flattered and sweet-talked and is a little piqued by Phillip's way with her.

Phillip, determined to find out if she could love him for who he really is or if she'd only be happy with a simpering, mincing exquisite, sets off to France to become said exquisite.  And man, what a transformation takes place!  There is the inevitable first meeting between Cleone and the transformed Phillip, rivalry between her suitors, a "villian" that you truly can sneer at, duels, bewildering multiple engagements and finally a satisfactory end. 

This is a good, light, "young" read, with witty characters and dialogue.  It is in my upper 25 list.  Phillip is a wonderful character and someone you would really like to know.  His father and uncle are also characters that you grow to love, as is Cleone's aunt, Lady Malmerstoke.  Everyone gets what he or she deserves in the end.

I have one paperback copy of this book and will be getting a hardcover also.  I would LOVE to find a copy under the original title and pseudonym.  If there is one out there I will try to find it.

I will continue with more on Georgian England tomorrow and sometime over the weekend will write about Heyer's third book, THE GREAT ROXHYTHE.  Thanks for joining me.

Thursday, June 23, 2005

Okay, so I have to do this..........

I keep seeing this in other journals I read -- I mean a lot of other journals -- so here goes........   Please leave a one word comment that you think best describes me.

It can only be one word.  No more.

Then copy and paste this into your journal so that I may leave a word about you...

Stolen from Secret Garden.

Not much going on this week.  Our nice, cool weather extended through yesterday, but starting today the temperatures and the humidity are going up.  Today was an ozone action day, but I used my air conditioner on the way home from work.  I shouldn't have, but that's such a long drive, and in the hottest part of the day.  I was bad. *smacking myself on the hand*

I'm glad this week is almost over.  For some reason every day this week I've been counting down the hours and minutes.  That is not like me.  I guess the outsourcing thing is maybe still affecting me.  Everyone is supposed to find out around July 1 who will be staying with the part of document management that is remaining.  I don't expect to be one of them.  I haven't been with the company long enough.  I haven't yet decided whether I am going to be applying with "L" (the company taking over our doc. management duties) or not.  I may want to explore other options.  I did tell Debbie that I definitely do NOT want that position with FACETS.

My sinus infection is getting better, but the drainage is killing me.  I'm still on antibiotics.  Eler Beth is feeling good.  I had to re-schedule her appointment AGAIN, but at least now I have her seeing the doctor that her pediatrician really wanted her to see all along.  Hopefully we'll get this panic-attack issue taken care of before school in August.  I haven't written about this here yet, but basically, my nine-year old daughter has been having anxiety attacks for the past 9 months or so.  I suffer from panic attacks as well and take medication.  We haven't been able to identify anything that has happened at home or at school to trigger these; but I'm pretty sure that part of it is that she has not been able to grieve in the right way for my dad.  Her doctor agrees after talking with her about it.  Also, even though she is only nine she has had quite a growing spurt this past year and I think she is getting ready to go through puberty.  There are definite signs.  So if her  hormones are out of control right now that could contribute.

I've been letting Andrew get away with way too much inactivity so far this summer!  Staying up way too late and not doing enough during the day.  I plan for that to change next week.  I want them to enjoy their summer, especially at his age with graduation coming up in a few years, but staying up all night reading, on the computer, or playing games, and sleeping half the day is not acceptable.  I'm a little surprised that Thomas hasn't put his foot down already.  Well, sorry, son, but things are gonna be changin' real soon!

Thomas has been working a lot of overtime lately, and I may even be working Saturday.  (Didn't expect to work any more overtime this year, but we're swamped right now!) We can use the money, so I said I would if they needed me.  We're almost caught up on everything, though.  Our mortgage just went down a little, which is nice, and we've knocked out a couple other monthly bills.  Pretty soon I think we'll be debt free, barring any unforeseen occurrences, other than the mortgage, of course.

Well, I was unable to sleep and that's why I'm here online when I shouldn't be!  But I guess I should get to bed.  I took a nap when I first got home; that's why I'm up now.  Just wanted to update the journal a little and maybe write in my Book Talk journal a little.  Hope everyone out there is having a decent week.  More later.

Monday, June 20, 2005

Happy Anniversary

June 20, 2005

     Thomas and Lori Helms, 18 Years!

Sunday, June 19, 2005

Letting Go of Prejudices

Weekend Assignment #64: Tell about a moment with your dad that serves as an example of one of his best qualities.

I have been wrestling with this assignment.  I knew what I wanted to write, but not how to go about doing it.  Today I know....

I am white and my husband is black.  When I met, became friends with, fell in love with and knew I would marry my future husband I knew that my father would have a hard time with it.  I had never dated anyone of another race, never even been interested in anyone of another race, although I had had friends of color.  When I met Thomas what attracted me to him was him, and it had nothing to do with color or features. I knew in my heart -- no, in my soul -- that if my dad gave Thomas a chance he would see what I saw.  And I knew them both well enough to know that they had so much in common that they would become friends.  But how to convince my Dad of that?  I knew I couldn't.  He would have to find that out for himself.

The moment I would describe in answer to the above question was a Sunday night, several months before my wedding, when I sat on the floor at my father's feet and he and I talked together about me, about Thomas, about my beliefs and my father's beliefs, about love and friendship and so many other things. 

I told my dad that when he decided to give Thomas a chance he would have a son-in-law who would show him the respect in word and in action that my father deserved to have from him. He would have a friend with whom he could fish and hunt and talk about things that had a place in my father's heart and about which his other sons-in-law could not converse with him. I knew this.  In return my father told me about how he was raised, the culture and environment that had taught him that it was wrong and immoral to marry outside of your race.  He told me about how his mother had been raised to be scared of black people and why.  And he told me that if he was left alone to come to terms with it on his own that in his own time he would probably come to feel the way I predicted he would.  But he didn't want anyone to push him.

I watched my father progress from listening to other people's good opinions about Thomas..., to deciding to give him a chance..., to becoming best friends with him!  They talked and laughed together.  My husband listened respectfully while my dad gave him advice on something or showed him how to do something (usually something Thomas already knew, but he listened anyway). They went fishing together, shared hunting stories, worked on family vehicles, did home repairs.  Thomas listened to stories about being in the Navy during World War II, about growing up in Kentucky during the Great Depression.  I listened with pride as my father called Thomas his "other son", his "favorite son-in-law", his "friend".  When our son was born two years after we were married, the 10th of my parents' grandchildren, I saw my father with the grandson of his old age, and saw how much they loved one another.  When our daughter was born six years later I saw the granddaughter of his heart.  I heard with my own ears my father say to my husband, "I love you, Thomas.  You're like a son to me."  And he thanked me and my husband for giving him those two grandchildren.  And two weeks before he died, when he knew the end was near but could still somewhat enjoy the time he had left, he took Thomas into his confidence and told him things that he probably wouldn't have been comfortable telling me, my mother or my sisters or brother.  Thomas has said that my father was more of a father to him than his own father, and that he loved him more.

The moment that I shared with my dad that described one of his best qualities happened on that Sunday night in 1986.  It was the moment he told me to give him time, that he'd come around.  It was a moment that stretched throughout my marriage until his death in 2002 at the age of 80.   I don't know if the quality has a name.  Perhaps you would call it depth of character.  His was deeper than even he knew.  He had the depth of character to realize that perhaps the way he'd been taught and raised wasn't the way he really felt about things; the depth of character to get to know a man on the inside, to know that secret person of the heart.  And in return for displaying that depth of character he gained a best friend in Thomas and two adoring, loving, smart grandchildren that helped to fill his last years on Earth with happiness and completeness.

My father has been gone for three years now, {at time of writing} but he is still with us.  My husband and I will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary tomorrow, June 20.   You can bet that my father will be in our thoughts as we wish each other a happy anniversary. 

    Me with my Dad, Jeff Dowell, around 1972.

Saturday, June 18, 2005

Quet evening and remembering.........

It is a nice Saturday evening, and I'm just sitting here having a cup of herbal tea.  It is a lot cooler today, high only about 76*, which is wonderful!  It has been sunny and there has been a nice breeze blowing.

I'm feeling better, but the medicine for my sinus infection is causing a lot of drainage and I can feel it starting to settle in my chest, so I'm taking precautions against that.  I've just done a lot of nothing today.  Reading and surfing the net mostly.  The kids have been great all day.  Thomas worked this morning, then took Eler Beth fishing this afternoon, much to her great joy!

The situation at work really started hitting me Thursday evening.  Yesterday I was depressed enough that my manager noticed it.  But I'll get through it.  I have decided that I do not want to take the position in FACETS though.  For purely selfish reasons, but, what the hey!  Sometimes you gotta do what's right for you. 

I have been trying to compose a Weekend Assignment entry, but I'm having trouble with it.  There have been a lot of moments with my Dad that I could write about, but the one I want to write about I'm having difficulty composing.  It would have to be done just right, if you know what I mean.  Oh well, maybe I'll be able to later.  I won't push it.  I still miss my Dad so much, and especially today for some reason.

Nothing more really to say right now.  Guess I'll go do something else, and maybe I'll be back later with that entry.

February, 1947

February 1947

My Parents right after they were married, February of 1947.

 

     Jeff and Eler Dowell

This picture was taken at my Gradfather Roberts' farm in Union Star, Kentucky.  My father was just getting ready to turn 25 years old, and my mother was 23.

I had never noticed before, but when I zoomed in on this picture I could tell that my Father was wearing pinstripe pants!  And aren't my Mom's shoes snazzy?

Thursday, June 16, 2005

It's been a hard week

Sunday night my left eye started itching and when I woke up Monday morning it was swollen and my lashes were matting together.  I went to work, but left early to go to the doctor, because I was pretty sure I had pink eye.  I did!  AND I had a sinus infection.  So I got ointment for my eye and an antibiotic and Tylenol Sinus.  I slept all afternoon.  I went to work Tuesday, but I was pretty miserable.  Even with the medicine my eyes itched and hurt, and the other medicine made me so sleepy.  Then I started my period!  I had to work 10 hours yesterday instead of four because of working a short day on Monday.  I am only now starting to feel better and finally a little rested.

There were three "W/A" jobs posted today, and at least two of them I would be qualified for.  I don't really want to apply for another job within "W/A" right now, because then I would have to move to that job right now, and I really just want to stay in OCR until after the first of the year.  Then Debbie came to me and two of the other girls and said that there were two openings in FACETS that we would be qualified for if we wanted!  Rita is going to do it.  She thinks it would be good to be learning something new and it IS a little more money.  I really don't want to, though.  Yes, we could use the money, but I really like where I am and what I am doing.  I'm going to have to be leaving it next Spring anyway, so why do it now voluntarily?  Thomas says it's up to me and not to do it just because it's a jump in salary.  But I'll think about it.

 

Thursday Book Talk

A Story for a Convalescing Brother

THE BLACK MOTH

 


Published in 1921 when Georgette Heyer was 19 years old.

She had written the story to amuse her convalescing brother, Boris, and was encouraged by her father to have it published.  Imagine, she wrote this when she was 17 years old! 

The Black Moth tells the story of Diana Beauleigh, a country-bred lady who, as the book jacket says, "inflamed the passion of a great Duke."  Before the Duke of Sale can manage to abduct the lady, an unknown masked man rescues her and is, of course, injured in the process.  And of course, who gets to nurse the man back to health and fall in love with him before finding out he is not a highwayman?  Diana, of course.

Heyer did not write sequels, but characters in this book are revisited in THESE OLD SHADES and DEVIL'S CUB. 

I have a copy of this Georgian novel in paperback and a good-quality hard cover with a dust-jacket, published in 1968.

THE BLACK MOTH is special simply because it was Heyer's first book.  It is good, without being great.  It is not in my top 10 of Heyer's books, but it definitely showed what Heyer was going to be able to accomplish as she got older.  I can't imagine writing anything nearly so good at the age of 17, much less a period piece in which knowledge of Georgian England would be necessary.

I do recommend reading it, because there is nothing wrong with it.  It is a good, enjoyable read, and it does intoduce characters that are brought out again in other novels.  Besides, as I said, it is her first book!  That alone is reason to read it. 

Next week I will talk about her second book, POWDER AND PATCH.

 

A Bird On The Wing, Sort Of...........

A strange episode yesterday involving my cat ...

 

My cat Freedom, who was five years old this April, is an outside cat who likes to hunt.  She doesn't do it like she did when she was younger, though, but occasionally you see the evidence of a "kill".  Yesterday afternoon my daughter was outside and she came running in the house to tell me, "Mom!  Freedom's walking across the yard and she has a bird in her mouth, holding it by the wing!  It's a starling, though, so it's okay."  I said, "She does?  She's probably trying to tell me it's time to feed her."  I was just joking, but Eler Beth said she'd go feed her, and when she left I said to myself, "No, if she had meant it to get my attention and tell me it was time for dinner she would have caught a song bird, not a starling."  I'd hardly finished the thought when Eler Beth ran in again and said that when Freedom came closer to her she could see that it wasn't a starling, but something else, maybe a mourning dove, so Eler Beth, a lover of birds (except starlings!) yelled, "NO Freedom!" and threw the catfood at her!  Freedom dropped the bird, and IT FLEW AWAY!!!!! 

I'm glad she didn't kill it, since it wasn't a starling.  Maybe she WAS just trying to tell me it was time for dinner.

Expecting.......

     Our Operations Expert, Susan, found out she is having a girl!  Congratulations to her!  This is their third child; they already have a boy and a girl.  She is due in October, but the baby may come very early.  She has said that there are some medical problems, but she hasn't said what, and I haven't wanted to pry.  With this outsourcing thing going on I know she hates to have just one more worry in her life.  She recently graduated from college with a degree in Accounting, however.  She will stay with our company for now, and, after all, her job is secure until next Spring, just like the rest of us.  But she couldn't look for anything else right now if she wanted to; she has to stay where she is until after her maternity leave is over.

A while back I wrote about Sherae , one of our Kelly Temporary Associates and how her husband was killed.  Well she is having a boy.  She came back to work after being off for a week.  I think it was probably mostly because she needed the paycheck, but it was probably the best thing for her too.  She is so sweet.  With what she's been through she is still such a hard worker and always has a smile on her face when you see her.  Her baby is due in August, I think.   

We are going to give a baby shower/luncheon for her and Susan some time next month.   She may actually deliver early too.             

Beautiful Weather

The weather is going to be beautiful for the next several days.  Yesterday the high was 80*, today the high was 78*, the low tonight is going to be in the 60s, and it's going to stay like this for awhile.  This is the kind of weather I really love.  I look forward to doing some stuff outside this weekend.  I like the cool nights and early mornings and the warm days without so much humidity.  I plan to enjoy it while it lasts, because in the Ohio Valley, it doesn't stay this nice for long!

Sunday, June 12, 2005

Jobs May Come, and Jobs May Go, And Unfortunately.......

Well, we got some unwelcome news at work last Tuesday.  And even though I've had a pretty good attitude about it and have probably irritated some of my co-workers because I haven't been as down or angry or worried as they, I've still not been able to write about it until today.

We had an all-associate meeting on Tuesday.  Right before the meeting "S" came over to my desk and whispered, "My friend at "P" (the other location of Document Management) said that the rumor there is that we're all losing our jobs today!"  I said, "Well, we know how often the rumor-mill is right, don't we?"  "S": "It's been known to happen."  Me: "Yes, but I really don't think it'll happen 'today'."

Then at the location of the meeting "S" came over to where Rita and I were sitting and whispered, "I found out what the meeting's about.  Our jobs are being outsourced."  Now that I could believe.  When "C", the Director of Document Management, got up in front of all of us to start the meeting I could tell from her face that it wasn't good news.  BINGO!  Guess what's going to happen in the Spring of 2006?!!!

I work for a large (dare I say THE LARGEST) insurance company in the US.  We are the largest now because we recently merged with another large company.  I'll call us "W/A".  "W/A" has decided that in order to deliver fast and quality service to our customers the best thing to do is to contract out all (almost all) document management departments to another company I'll call "L".  All "L" does is document management.  Unfortunately most of the document management jobs that use data entry are outsourced to other countries, unless the provider has specifically stipulated in its contract that its claims do not go overseas.

We had a nice little talk from the vice-president of "L" and from our HR representative.  Very few of our specific questions were answered.  Basically, there are only a few applications of Doc. Management that will be kept at "W/A".  And basically within 30 days we will learn who of us, if any, will be staying with one of those applications.  Then within 45 days we will have an opportunity to attend a job fair where "L" will let us know what positions will be open with them, where we can, hopefully, get more of our questions answered, and where, if we want, we can apply for a position with them.  Within three months we will know who will be "transitioning" to "L", of those who applied, and who won't.  In the meantime we can always apply for other job openings within "W/A".  If we are not offered a position of comparable salary with "W/A" we will be given severance packages.  No matter what, though, we will all have our current positions until Spring (March, April or May -- who knows when?) of 2006.  Unless we've moved on to another "W/A" position or quit and taken another job somewhere else before then.  None of us wants to quit "W/A" before January, though, because we want to get our incentive payout, which we are still guaranteed as long as we are with "W/A" on Dec. 31.

                                        

So, I guess I will just play a wait and see game.  I have a job, and I'm not losing it anytime soon:  That's a good thing.  I may be offered a position with what remains of "W/A" document management.  I don't really think I'll want one, though.  I may take a job with "L".  But from what I hear I won't want that either.  So I'll probably just stay where I am, and sometime after January 1st I'll start looking around for something I like better:  I see that as a LIMITLESS OPPORTUNITY.  Or between now and then I may find something I like better within "W/A".

                                            

You can't help but be a little angry and depressed.  Whenever something like this happens you go through the same emotions as when someone dies.  But I am not going to let this take control of my life:     

                                     

      I have a wonderful family and support network. 

           I have never had trouble getting a job that I wanted.

                 I have the security of this job for just under a 

                 year longer, so we have time to make plans. 

 I am just going to look at it as a glass half full. 

There's nothing I can do about it, so I'm not going to shoot myself in the foot by not doing my job well right now.  We'll still have a year-end review, and that and our performance right now will still count toward the possibilities of getting a different position with "W/A" or "L" and will show good or bad on any resume or application we put in somewhere else.  Yes, I think "W/A" made a business decision, a decision that improves their bottom line for their investors, and that is probably royally screwing us.  But at the end of the day, I can be satisfied with myself that I have acted with integrity as an associate with this company; I have upheld my end of the partnership even if they have not done so. 

 

Thursday, June 9, 2005

Up a Little Late, Tonight

I went to bed and was tossing and turning and all of a sudden remembered that I hadn't done my crunches tonight.  So I got up and did them.  I did 70 tonight instead of 50.  Then I couldn't get to sleep, so I got online and saw that I had some new entry alerts, so of course I had to read them and leave comments.  So now I'm really wide awake.  Maybe I'll make a cup of herbal tea.  I don't have to be up early tomorrow, but I don't need to sleep too late either.  Better get myself to bed.  Bye for now.

 

I had to correct a mistake

As I was copying the previous entry from my rough draft, I had that nursery rhyme going 'round and 'round in my head, and I put in the line for Thursday's child, so I went back to correct it.  But if anyone has my entries on their alerts, the incorrect one will probably be the one to show up!  Oh well!

 

Saturday's Child Works Hard For It's Living

Talking About: Georgette Heyer Part II  

In 1902 Enrico Caruso, well-reknowned opera singer, made his first gramaphone recording in London, England.......

In 1902 the U.S. occupation of Cuba ended.......

Alan-A-Dale was the 28th Kentucky Derby Winner.......

Beatrix Potter published her first Peter Rabbit book, THE TALE OF PETER RABBIT.......

Willis H. Carrier came up with the first system to control temperature and humidity, inventing the first air conditioner.......

Fossils of a Tyrannasaurus Rex were discovered by Barnum Brown in Hell Creek, Montana..........

Theodore Roosevelt was President of the United States, and.......

Georgette Heyer was born on August 16.

Georgette's grandfather was Russian, and the name "Heyer" was originally pronounced, as most people pronounce it today, as "high-er".  But during World War I the family changed the pronunciation to sound less German and it was pronounced to sound like "hair".  Georgette herself pronounced it that way.  But it is very hard for me to do so.  I didn't know about the war-years' pronunciation change when I first became a fan, so when I found out that she herself pronounced it to rhyme with "fair" I tried to do so.  But it automatically comes to my mind or out of my mouth as rhyming with "flyer".

Georgette was the eldest of three children.  Her brothers were Boris and Frank.  Her father, George Heyer, was a teacher at King's College School.

Georgette was born on a Saturday, so in keeping with the old nursery rhyme, I guess it could be said that she (as Saturday's child) "worked hard for her living".

The next entry will discuss her first novel, THE BLACK MOTH.

See the  Entry below for Part I.

Catching Up

No one is home but me right now.  Thomas took the kids to Vernie's to pick more cherries.  His trees are really full of them this year, and it doesn't seem like many have worms or insects.  I'm going to make a pie and freeze the rest for future use. 

I have been catching up on journal reading today.  I started my Book Talk today (see previous entry), and I even started a new journal just for that.  There may be some readers out there who wouldn't be interested in my regular journal (how dare they!), but would like the one just about books.  Anyway, I'm getting a chance to catch up.  I've commented in a couple of journals (you know who you are), and I did two entries in my Journal Jar (see below).  So I guess now I need to come up with something else to do on the computer while I have the house to myself.  More later!

http://journalhttp://journals.aol.com/helmswondermom/LorisJournalJar/entries/334

http://journals.aol.com/helmswondermom/LorisJournalJar/entries/333

Thursday Book Talk

Talking About: Georgette Heyer

She was born August 16, 1902 in Wimbledon, England and published her first novel at the age of 19.  Although she is mostly known for her Regency novels, she also wrote several Georgian period novels, one biography of William the Conqueror, one set during the reign of Charles II, four Post World War II novels (contemporary to her life) and many mysteries.  While Jane Austen wrote about the time in which she was living, Heyer wrote from in-depth research and her love of the time.  She is appreciated for the interesting wit, humor and absurdities of her characters, her twisting plots, colorful use of Regency cant and her knowledge of the customs, culture, political landscape and class distinctions of the period.

I have been a huge fan of Heyer since about 1980.  I had obtained a few of her books over the years, but this year have seriously started building a collection of her work, mostly buying from Ebay and Amazon, but also making finds at flea markets, thrift stores and yard sales.  I almost have a complete collection.  Of her 55 novels I have at least one copy, and sometimes more, of 42 of them.  This is a pretty good website for anyone who likes Heyer.

 Patricia Veryan is another one of my favorites; I place her beside Heyer, neither above nor below.  She has her own unique style for writing Georgian and Regency period novels.  I have also started a collection of her books and will be talking about them in the future.

Clare Darcy is the only modern author of the Regency Novel that I would put directly below Heyer and Veryan.  Most, and I do mean MOST, modern writers of Regency romance, do not know the period well at all.  They get too many things wrong and most of the books read as if they have been thrown together.  Once in a while I come across one that is pretty good, and when I do I will share it here.  A trend of modern Regency authors that I truly do not like is putting in graphic scenes depicting sexual encounters.  It is unnecessary.  Neither Heyer, nor Veryan, nor Darcy had to do so to tell warm, romantic, funny love stories.  I think most true fans of the genre agree withme.

So, this is my start of talking about books I love to read and collect.  I hope I have some readers out there who will enjoy it, and I'd like to hear from you, even if you don't know or care for Heyer, or if you don't agree with anything I've said.  I will probably do another entry today about the first book that Heyer wrote.  For now, happy reading!

Here are some other websites readers may find interesting:

http://www.lesleyannemcleod.homestead.com/fiction.html

http://www.romantictimes.com/f_reader/f3a_31.html

A Day Off

I am off today and tomorrow.  We have a convention this weekend and I wanted today to get ready for it. 

Boy has this been a strange and busy week!  I'll explain about it in another entry later.  I don't feel like talking about it right now.

The weather is hot and humid.  Today it is actually a little better than it has been though.  I am doing laundry and trying to get the kids out of my hair so I can write for awhile.  Eler Beth just went for a bike ride and Andrew is ensconced in his room, probably reading.  He's grounded from the phone for awhile.  Grades weren't what they should have been!

I think today I'll finally start writing about my books; books I like, books I'm collecting, favorite authors, etc.  Maybe I'll make it a weekly or bi-weekly thing.  I'm in the mood for it today.  We'll see.

More later.  Hope everyone out there is having a nice June, and for those who are still in school or have kids in school, hang in there!  The end is coming!

Sunday, June 5, 2005

Hot and Humid Sunday

It is a beautiful day, but it's hot and humid, too.

EB is still feeling better, but she's still coughing.  Her appetite continues to get better.  Thomas barbecued some chicken and pork this afternoon, outside on the grill, and I did some pasta salad and baked beans.  Made a banana pudding for dessert.  UMMMMMM.  Eler Beth ate some chicken and some pudding. 

I wasn't feeling too well when I got up this morning, but I made it to the meeting with the rest of the family anyway.  The youngest brother of one of my best friends gave the public discourse.  When I first became friends with his sister he was about six years old!  Makes me feel really old!  I'm feeling better.  When I got up my head felt heavy and my shoulders were achy, and I just felt tired all over.  I took a short nap right after lunch, and I feel better, but I've been sneezing.  Hopefully I don't get any part of what EB had.

I've been cleaning out files (hard copy, not computer), but not for long!  Don't have the energy or the mind set for something like that.  It's too hot to do anything outside.  I did do another load of laundry and hang it out, though.  I guess it's cool enough now that I could take my walk.  If I don't, it's crunches again tonight, but I'm going to do 70, not 50, if I don't walk.  I can feel it in my abdomen muscles.  So something's happening down there. 

Well, tomorrow the kids are on their own all day.  I need to assign them a few things to do in the morning before they get to playing and laying around all day!  And I have an article to write for the newsletter at work.  I better do that tonight because I have to get it in on Wednesday, and I know I'll be too tired tomorrow and Tuesday.  Well, this has been a boring entry, but it's been that kind of day.  Guess I'll go write that article and get things ready for tomorrow.

 

Saturday, June 4, 2005

Nice Saturday Evening

Well, I did finally take a nap this morning, after having gotten up so early.  But first I cleaned my bathroom and did two loads of laundry.  This afternoon Thomas and I took Andrew to Gamestop, and we did some grocery shopping.  I fixed pork chops, crisp sweet corn, creamy mashed potatoes and apple sauce for dinner. MMMMMMMMM

Eler Beth is getting her appetite back.  She and her friend played good together all afternoon.  I did a little bit more housework this afternoon, but not as much as I should have.  I'll finish up tomorrow.  I also have to make sure the kids are organized for next week.

I'm still trying to catch up on my journal jar.  I did two more entries today.  At least I'm not the only one who came in late.  I did NOT go for a walk today, like I should have.  It seemed like when the sun finally came out enough to burn off the fog it went straight to HUMID.  I guess it's crunches again tonight!

More tomorrow.

Summer Vacation Is Here

                            Yay!  Today is the first full day of summer vacation.  And boy does it feel like it.  It is 82 degrees right now in Southern Indiana, with 51% humidity, sunny and hot!

 

It is too soon for Eler Beth to go outside to do much, but she is getting so much better.  That anitbiotic is kicking butt, and her cough is much better.  I let her have one of her neighborhood-as-bored-as-she-is-girl friends over and they have been working puzzles and playing video games all day.  Andrew watched tv and is now (supposedly) cleaning his room.  He wants me to take him to Gamestop today so he can trade-in some games he never plays anymore.  He is trying to get together some money for something!  He has one lawn-mowing job this summer, will be watching EB for us and has his allowance, but when there's something he really wants he's willing to try to find the money for it somehow.  (He knows he's been advanced all he can be advanced on his allowance!)  I think Thomas has some odd-jobs-for-pay lined out for him for this summer, though.  He just doesn't know it yet.

This is Way Too Early for a Saturday!

It is 5:16 am on a Saturday and I am wide awake.  I do NOT have to work today.  Thomas left for work at 4:30.  I got up when he did at 3:30!!!  I do like to do that sometimes, because it gives us a few quiet minutes together without the kids, but then I usually go back to bed.  Instead I'm sitting here drinking coffee.  A VERY, VERY GOOD cup of coffee.  So I decided to get online and read a few journals.  Then I think I'll clean the bathroom and get it out of the way.  Then I'll probably go back to bed!!!

Wednesday night I DID do my crunches -- 50 of them (see entry below), and Thursday night since it was raining I did 50 more.  Last night I did 50 crunches, plus a few other exercises.  This morning I should walk a mile.  Maybe after the sun comes up!   Anyway, I'm proud of myself for following through so far on my 30 day challenge/commitment.

Well, more later.  I'm going to finish my coffee, read some journals and then clean my bathroom.

Thursday, June 2, 2005

Bronchitis and A BAD Mood!

Baby Girl has Bronchitis.  I ended up taking her to the doctor.  She doesn't have strep, but her throat is raw from all that coughing.  They took a chest x-ray because her breathing was so bad.  She also has some fluid building up in her ears. So we spent $30.00 on an antibiotic and an inhaler, bought Dimetapp, juice and yogurt (the doctor told her to eat yogurt every day for two weeks because the antibiotic can cause a yeast infection.).

She is feeling so bad and in such a bad mood.  Tomorrow is the last day of school, and it's only a half day.  She has an excuse, but if she's feeling up to it and her fever doesn't come back, I told her she could go if she wants.  She's asleep right now, but she keeps talking in her sleep and thrashing around, fussing.  She and I both need a good night's sleep.  She made an entry in her journal today which is so cute: 

9:56:21 AM EDT
Feeling Quiet

sick on the last week of school

I am home,sick in bed on the last week of school.   It is alredy Thurs.   I can't stop cauphin.   (I whant to jest go to bed).

Poor baby.  I hope she gets over this soon.

http://journals.aol.com/princesselerbeth/FossilsandOtherFavoriteThingsLik/entries/991

Wednesday, June 1, 2005

I'm Passing on a Challenge

Tonight it's Crunches............

I have been reading jgalarza879, http://journals.aol.com/jgalarza879/SmallTownLife/, a journal that is new to me, that I have been enjoying, and she accepted a challenge from another fellow J'lander and is passing it on.  The original challenge was to pick something, anything, that is good for us and do it every day for 30 days.  She is doing 100 crunches every day.  I am walking up to a mile every day, unless the weather is bad, in which case I am going to do at least 50 crunches.  I am even measuring my waist to see where I'm starting and where I'll finish on June 30.  I'm doing crunches tonight because it is raining and too late to walk.

Who's with me?

We Love Them, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah

I really do like The Beatles.  During every stage of their careers.  I was born in 1966, so I didn't really "grow up" with them, but I did grow up listening to them.  As stated before my eldest sister was 18 in 1966 when I was born.  I don't think she was all that crazy about The Beatles, but the two sisters closest to me in age listened to them a lot.  As I grew up and learned more about music and lyrics and harmony and instruments, I appreciated them more.  I have never been and am not now an "idol-worshipper" of any kind.  I don't go crazy over any performer, cry at concerts, fight for tickets, daydream about some actor, and so forth.  I never did as a teenager, either.  But I really, really appreciate a talented performer and The Beatles as a group had it all together.  Individually they had their own strengths which I can also appreciate, but together, they were awesome.  Anyway, I've been enjoying this web site, and I thought someone else might also:  http://www.thebeatlesarecoming.com/blog.html

It's written in the form of a day-by-day chronicling of The Beatles in America.  It's very good!

Change of Plans

Today was my short day.  Eler Beth had a doctor's appointment this afternoon, but they called to re-schedule it.  They never did give me a reason.  I guess he had some kind of emergency.  Now we don't get to deal with the panic issue until June 22.  GREAT!

She is still sick.  Her fever isn't as high, her throat looks fine, but she still has a cough.  I couldn't get her in to her regular pediatrician, and I'm really hoping I don't have to end up taking her to the Urgent Care Center.  I'm hoping a nice tepid bath, medication and lots of liquids and sleep will do the trick.  She only has one and a half days of school left!

Andrew had finals in Algebra and Keyboarding.  Science is Friday, not today.  And tomorrow he has Spanish and Theater finals.  They even have a final in Gym(!!!) on Friday.  I will be soooooo glad to have them out of school.

I'm still trying to catch up on my Journal Jar questions.  Here is number 12.  http://journals.aol.com/helmswondermom/LorisJournalJar/entries/319

MY VERY FIRST COMMENT!!!

Yesterday at work I checked my home email, and guess what?  I had an alert that someone had left a comment in my journal!  Yay!  My first official one!  (My daughter left one, but that's different.)  I know that other people besides me at least "open" my journal.  The counter tells me so.  Perhaps some people actually read it once in a while?  Anyway, thanks Kris.  You just don't know how much that meant to me!