Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Since I'm Up Anyway . . .

I was tagged a few days ago by Beth at Nutwood Junction.  It has been so long since I've actually received a "tag" that her "You've been tagged!" at the end of her comment to one of my entries almost went unnoticed.  I actually did a "double-take".

So I will perform my duties now.  Here are the rules:

1. The rules of the game get posted at the beginning.
2. Each player answers the questions about themselves.
3. At the end of the post, the player then tags 5 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know they’ve been tagged and asking them to read your blog.

QUESTIONS:

1) What was I doing 10 yrs ago?

In 1998 I was, as I am now, a stay-at-home mom, although I believe I was working part-time for a caterer.  Thomas was working where he is now, actually.  Andrew was 8 years old, and joyful little third grader.  He was becoming more social, with neighborhood friends dropping by to play video games and calling on the phone.  Eler Beth was 2 years old, and the same whirlwind she is now, only with shorter legs and a shorter attention span.  My father was still living then, too.  We were just getting ready to buy our house.

2) What are 5 things on my to-do list for today (not in any particular order):

1.  Call to make a dentist's appointment for Andrew.

2.  Print out some social studies lessons for Eler Beth.

3.  Gas up my car before the prices go up again tonight!!

4.  Pull some tenderloin out of the freezer for dinner.

5.  Call my Mom.

3) Snacks I enjoy:

  Popcorn, Triscuit crackers, Grapes, Almond Joy bars, Bananas

4) Things I would do if I were a billionaire:

Pay my kids college fees, give my Mom, sisters, and brother, WHATEVER they wanted, buy Thomas the property he wants for hunting and fishing and then build my dream house on it, give Andrew the best graduation party he could imagine this year, oh my, where would I stop??

5) Five of my bad habits:

I twirl my hair,

twiddle my thumbs,

hum a lot,

stay up too late at night,

and pop my knuckles. 

Wouldn't I look pretty demented if I were doing all those things at once?

6) 5 places I have lived:

Hardinsburg, Kentucky;

Louisville, Kentucky;

Harned, Kentucky;

and Jeffersonville, Indiana. 

That's it, just four places.  Five if you consider that I grew up actually living just outside of Hardinsburg, and then I lived within the city limits of Hardinsburg for a while when we were first married.

7) 5 jobs I have had:

Layout artist, proofreader, and features writer for a newspaper;

HR liaison for a gravure company;

comptroller for a food broker;

document management clerk for an insurance company;

office manager for a welding company.

5 people I'll tag:

Pam

Jenny

Shelly

Roxie

Gem

 


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Again, this is a duplicate of a Call For Support entry.  Please take a minute to send Hope some encouraging words.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Please Stop By Mara's

If you haven't already done so, please stop by Mara's Journal, I Have Tea.  Mara's baby brother died suddenly yesterday evening.  I'm sure she would appreciate all the good thoughts and prayers for her and her brother's family right now.

I posted this news on the shared journal Call For Support that Guido started a while back.

If you aren't already subscribing to alerts from this journal, I encourage you to do so.  There are many others in J-Land who have suffered losses recently, including Anne at Saturday's Child, who, I am sure, would also appreciate your calling 'round.

Monday, April 7, 2008

School Has Been Called Off Today On Account Of Good Weather!

We're supposed to get rain the rest of the week, but today is absolutely gorgeous!  It is warm and sunny, and I couldn't see doing schoolwork when there's a nice Spring day to enjoy.  We did do our daily reading, though.  Everything else can be caught up tomorrow to the accompaniment of rain.  Blech!

I drank my coffee out on my front porch this morning and listened to the birds singing.  I could hear our tiels and keets answering from inside the house.  I wandered around the yard checking to see what plants were poking their heads out of the ground and what was showing off new buds, leaves, or blooms.  Occasionally I would nudge some dried leaves and grass out of the way with the toe of my shoe, to see what new growth was hiding below. 

I ambled around the house, critically checking  windows, eaves, and gutters, making a mental to-do list.  I washed sheets and bedding and hung them out on the lines to dry.  I turned the dogs out of their kennels to watch them rolling on their backs in the new grass, scratching off winter coats.  With the help of a step ladder I peeked inside a dove's nest to see if there were any eggs yet.  There weren't.  I responded happily to a neighbor, cleaning out the bed of phlox surrounding her mailbox, who asked me if I was out getting some vitamin D.

I hope they're wrong about the forecast for the rest of the week.  But if they aren't, then I'll make this day count as much as I can.  I hope everyone is having a wonderful Monday out there.

Thank you Donna for the beautifulgraphics.

"A good name is better than precious ointment; . . .

. . . and the day of death than the day of one's birth."  Eccl. 7:1 (KJV)

                                           

Well, the funeral service for my BIL was very nice, and there was quite a crowd there.  He was one of 10 children, with 1 brother and 7 sisters and his mother surviving him.  Many of his nieces and nephews were there as well.  Everyone loved Uncle Jerry.

There was quite a crowd of people from the community who had known Mary and Jerry for decades who were there as well.  It was also good to see Thomas' brother and his family, and his sister and her husband, all of whom came in from Nashville.  We got to meet a new grand-nephew (2 months old) for the first time as well.  Mary's first husband, his brother, a sister, and a nephew were there as well.  I thought that was rather remarkable, since they weren't related to Jerry, but Thomas said that he wasn't surprised because they'd all known one another, Jerry included, even before Mary had married either time. 

"It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all man; and the living will lay it to his heart."  Eccl. 7:2 (KJV)

It was obvious how well-thought-of Jerry was in the community, and Mary as well.  Nieces and nephews spoke of Jerry taking them fishing when they little, how he gave the nieces and nephews nicknames, how he would travel to Glasgow, Kentucky just to fish with his mother and father because they wanted to see him and that was their favorite recreation, how he was the one who taught Thomas how to drive and how when Thomas and his brothers were sent up here to live with Mary after their mother died (Thomas was only nine), that Jerry spent hours with them fishing and talking and keeping them occupied.  He may have lived only 62 short years, but they were good years and he built up a good name for himself.

"Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof; . . . ."  Eccl. 7:8 (KJV)

But funerals for two Saturdays in a row is enough for me for a while.

Mary continues to do very well.  Their sister, Maxi, never left her side through Jerry's brief illness, surgery, coma, and then following his death.  Mary is staying with Maxi for as long as Maxi can get her to. 

Thank you again to all who left comments of sympathy and encouragement. 

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Thirty-Fourth Anniversary of the April 3 Tornadoes

This is a re-print of the April 3 entry from last year:

On April 3, 1974 I was just a few days short of my 8th birthday, a second grader at Hardinsburg Elementary School, in Breckinridge County, Kentucky.  I have only one really clear memory of that day, and that was when our school bus stopped about a quarter of a mile from our house, in front of what had been the house of a great-aunt.

This was not a scheduled bus stop, so when our driver slowed to a stop it brought my attention out of the book I was reading.  I looked out the right side of the bus and was greatly surprised to see my mother standing there.  I called to my sister, Barbara, six years my senior, "What's Mom doing there?"  She looked at me like I was an idiot, and that is when I realized that Dad was there too, holding a chain saw, along with other men, neighbors, cousins and uncles, also with chain saws, and they were engaged in cutting up the huge oak that had once stood at the end of my great-aunt's drive.  The tree had been pulled up out of the ground by the roots, and as my horrified gaze drifted past that sight I realized that the old house that had stood a bit back from the road was gone!

Our driver, after talking to some of the adults outside, continued on the route; ours was actually the next stop.  I was thoroughly upset.  My sister was still irritated with me -- "Didn't you know we had a tornado come through today?  What did you think that tornado drill was all about?"

Well, I swear I have no recollection of any tornado drill.  I don't think I even had any memory of it at the time she said that.  Either the fact that a tornado had come through that close to home and had destroyed a house that was familiar to me had wiped all other recollections of the day out of my mind, or the drill had been conducted as a regular drill and had been so innocuous that it had meant nothing to me, I don't know.  I'm sure the older kids, like my sister, had either been told by their teachers that it hadn't been a drill, but the real thing, or they'd figured it out, but I'm sure we younger ones were just led to believe that it was only a drill.

I foundout later that at our house, my father, who had been outside working in his shed when the weather took a horrible turn, had watched from about a half-acre to the back of the house as the tornado had headed straight for our home and then had seemed to just "jump" over it.  He said it literally picked itself up right before it got to our house, stepped over the house, and then lowered itself back down.  This would have been right after it had taken out my great-aunt's house.

Inside the house, my mother, two of my sisters, a four-year-old niece and a family friend, had all crawled under my parent's iron bed as soon as they saw the tornado approaching.  We didn't have a basement, and that was deemed the safest place to be on such short notice.  A lot of praying was going on under that bed, I can tell you!

That tornado, an F5 by the time it hit Brandenburg, to our East, was one of at least 26 deadly tornados that hit Kentucky that day.  The one that jumped over our house was considered the most severe and one of only 7 F5 tornados recorded.  In Breckinridge and Meade Counties I believe 31 people died.  The most damage in our county was done to the town of Irvington, to our East.  The city of Brandenburg, in Meade County, was almost completely wiped out, and many of the deaths were of children playing outside.  The city of Louisville, Kentucky, in Jefferson County, was hit by a different tornado and also saw a lot of damage and deaths.  The April 3, 1974 tornado outbreak is considered one of the worst, if not the worst, in U.S. history.

The following is a quote from this site:

The forecast for Wednesday April 3, 1974 was for showers on the East coast and for thunderstorms across the Midwest. In the heavens, a storm of an overwhelming magnitude was forming. Children went to school, people went to work and lives went on as normal until the second worst storm of the 1900's struck. Tornadoes broke across the heartland with such an intensity and frequency never seen before in the United States. Homes and schools destroyed. Loved ones lost. This site looks at the events of that day .This site is dedicated to the 315 people who lost their lives in this storm and to the over 5,000 people who were injured.
 
There are some really awesome photos on that site.
 
The following information is from this site:
 
 
April 3, 1974
Counties: Breckinridge and Meade, Kentucky, Harrison, Indiana Meade, Harrison IN
F-Scale:  F5
Deaths:  31
Injuries:  270
Path width: 500 ft.
Path length:  32 miles
Time:  2:20pm
Grazulis narrative:  Touching down five miles southwest of Hardinsburg, Breckinridge County, the tornado passed along the northern edge of that town, with F3 damage to homes.  Thirteen people were injured and 35 homes were destroyed as the funnel moved to the northeast across Breckinridge County and into Meade County.  The tornado gradually enlarged and intensified as it approached Brandenburg.  The funnel devastated that town and crossed the Ohio River into Harrison County, Indiana.  At Brandenburg 128 homes were completely destroyed, many of them leveled and swept away.  Thirty businesses were destroyed and damage totaled over ten million dollars.  There were 28 deaths in the Brandenburg area.  The F4 damage occurred from north of Irvington, into Indiana.
Noted discrepancies:  SPC and NCDC give a time of 2:20pm, Grazulis gives 3:25pm, Storm Data 3:30pm.  SPC and NCDC give a path length of 32 miles, Grazulis gives 34.  SPC and NCDC give a path width of 430 yards, Grazulis give 800 yards.
Click here for emails of personal accounts of the April 3 tornado.
 
For many years walks in the woods or camping trips would invariably include the sight of tin roofing high up in trees and the comment, "Must have been from the April 3 tornado."

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Welcoming Another April

LADY APRIL by Richard Le Galliene

So, April, here thou art again,

      Thou pretty, pretty lady!

With broidered skirts of sunkissed rain --

      A grown-up girl, already!

Thy sister May

Is on her way,

     And June, with tresses shady;

But, of the three,

I love best thee --

     Thou pretty, pretty lady!

Thou hauntest all the sobering year,

     With echos of thy laughter;

And life is nought till thou appear,

     And but remembrance after.

Though Autumn's yield

From garth and field

     Run o'er from floor to rafter,

Thy wild-rose breast

Haunts all the rest,

     And makes it poor with laughter.

   I posted this poem last year and remarked that it was one of few poems I had committed to memory when I was a child.  I loved the cadence of the words.

Todaywas certainly a beautiful April day, but rain is coming in tonight, and it's going to be sitting on top of us all day tomorrow.  We're expecting to get four or five inches.  I'll be glad when my yard dries out and I can plant things.

I noticed dogwoods blooming over the weekend, and today everywhere I went I saw forsythia, apple, and cherry blossoms.  I have crocus and daffodils blooming.

My sister-in-law is doing very well.  I called and chatted with her a while today.  Her sister was there with her.  I don't think she's left her side through the whole ordeal.  I expect her to break down to some extent on Saturday.  She and Jerry would have been married for 37 years this September.  That's quite a long while.

I've made my way to a few journals today, and hope to visit some more tomorrow.  Slowly, but surely, I'll get caught up.