Tuesday, August 5, 2008

WomenSpeak ~~ Another New Journal

I want to introduce another new journal, WomenSpeak, created by Mara at I Have Tea.  This is a shared journal created specifically as ". . .  a place where women can write on women's issues, from careers, home and family,  nutrition...a place to ask advice and share our collective wisdom."

If you would be interested in being a writer or manager on WomenSpeak, email Chaispice1023@aol.com

The idea for this shared journal came about in connection to Mara's entry previous to the one I linked to above, where she shared a personal experience regarding a certain aspect of life peculiar only to women -- actually two aspects of life peculiar only to women.  Be sure to read that entry here

I think this journal could be very interesting and helpful, and have asked to be a contributor for it.  I hope you bookmark WomenSpeak as a regular read or make a point to contribute if you feel so inclined.

Thanks again!


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The Fox Diarys

Yes, I know "Diarys" is spelled wrong.  But she likes it that way.

Eler Beth surprised me a couple of days ago with a new public AOL Journal that she has titled The Fox Diarys (because Foxes are her favorite animal).  She really did a great job on it; it's very attractive.  I'm not sure how I feel about her having a public journal, but I agreed to let her try it and to introduce it to my own friends, and as long as she doesn't start getting any inappropriate comments, . .  well, we'll just see how it goes.

She has left a comment in almost all of the past few entries I've made, saying "hi" to me and inviting "all Mom's friends" to visit her new journal.  Then she asked me if I'd introduce it for her here.  So I would appreciate it if you would drop by to visit The Fox Diarys and say "hi" to my baby girl.

Yesterday she asked me if I'd edit her entries for her because (as she said) "I know it must be driving you nuts Mom!"  Does she know me, or what? 

Thanking you in advance!

Monday, August 4, 2008

Site Meter Is Back!

For anyone whose Site Meter disappeared from the About Me section, it should be back now.  In Site Meter's newsletter they explain what happened and how they resolved the issue.  I owe AOL an apology, because it was something they had done!

Saturday, August 2, 2008

I SEE J-LANDERS!!!

Note:  I will put a picture of me in my journal soon.  I really don't have a problem with it, I just don't have a current picture that I like.  It may just be a pic of my face, but it will be current.

I really do like being able to put a face with a screen name or Journal, and I'm sure others feel the same way.  But I also respect anyone who isn't comfortable with putting in a picture of themselves or family members.

Now for the real reason for this entry, and it ties in with the previous one and the above paragraphs:  I keep seeing J-Landers in my town.  And they aren't really there!

Earlier this week I saw a lady in Meijer who looked to me just exactly like the pictures of Kelly (Noonmom).  I actually followed her about a bit.  It was uncanny.  I had to keep telling myself, "Kelly lives in California.  She wouldn't be in Jeffersonville, Indiana!"

A while back I swear I saw someone who looks like the pictures of Martha (lifes2odd) (who lives in Florida) getting into a car in the Kroger parking lot.  She was putting her cart in the cart corral when I spotted her, and then she stood talking to a young girl for a few minutes before she got in her car, so I had a minute to study her. 

Then this morning I was getting gas and while I was in line to pay at the counter the lady a few customers ahead of me finished paying, turned, and walked outside to pump her gas.  She looked just like Pam (lanurseprn).  Pam also lives in California, and I knew it wasn't her, but she really looked like her, smile and all!

So I guess for me the downside of seeing pictures of J-Landers is that I see their doubles all over my town, and it's a little unnerving.  Or maybe I'm developing a serious case of paranoia.  You guys aren't stalking me, are me?

I suppose alerts are still down?  This usually doesn't happen to me.  I get most journals by RSS Feeds, so I'm missing private journal alerts I know.  I don't think I've ever had a problem with getting comment alerts untilnow.  I hope AOL is working on the problem.

In other news: 

I overheard Eler Beth explaining what  ecosystem means to her friend B yesterday.  She did a pretty good job, too. 

We went to a graduation party today, and even though it was very hot, we had a nice time.  While there someone asked Eler Beth what was wrong with her arm and she said she had a "gangolian" cyst (instead of "ganglian").  That was kind of funny.

I hope everyone is having a good weekend, and I'll be around to read journals tomorrow afternoon.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Answering Some Comments

Current photo of Lori??  Are you kidding???

Hmmm.  Maybe I'll work on that.  Let me see what I can come up with.  (But don't hold your breath!)

By the way, are alerts down?  I didn't get alerts for the comments for my previous entries, which makes me wonder if everyone got new entry alerts from me and if I've missed some private journal alerts.  Hmm?

Pics of the New Kittens

I hope everyone enjoyed the pictures in the previous entry.  I have some more for you.

I wrote about Eler Beth's new kitten Samuel a while back, and that Andrew had decided he wanted to have Samuel's sister; he named her Kana.  Well, there was just one more left in the litter, and secretly I thought he was the prettiest of them all.  He has been coming across the street to play with his siblings, so I finally decided that he'd adopted us and told Thomas so.  Thankfully I have a really wonderful husband who said, "Well, what's one more?"  (Now the neighbors just need to find a home for the momma cat {who is actually a stray that just decided to have her kittens across the street} before she comes in season again.  She is still nursing these kittens.  When they're outside she'll call to them or come over here to nurse them.  But she won't let me catch her.)

So the new addition to the family is a blue/black tabby named Ranulf.  Eler Beth was trying to think of a name for him and she said, "Mom, what do you think of Ranulf?"

I stared at her in disbelief.  "Well I like the name Ranulf, but where in the world did you get it?"

She said, "Why?"

I said, "Because it is an Old Norse name that came to us by way of Scotland, and it means Wolf-Shield.  Where did you get it?"

"It's the name of a character on one of Andrew's video games."

Well, duh, of course it is! (!?!)

(We get the names Randolf and Ralph from Ranulf -- Randwulf in Old Norse -- by the way)

So, without further ado, I present to you Samuel, Kana, and Ranulf Helms.

Samuel, Kana,and Ranulf.  Kana and Ranulf don't have their collers and name tags yet in this picture, but we rectified that today.  Please ignore the shopping bags and clutter on the sofa!!  I believe I see some papers and a box that were supposed to have been put away WAY before this photo was taken.

Ranulf, The Wolf-Shield.  It really does fit him, doesn't it?  Isn't he pretty?  He picked me, you know.  He is exactly the type of cat I like, friendly, alert, and playful without being too aloof or TOO juvenile, if you know what I mean.  (Kana is more aloof and Samuel is very juvenile -- which he is supposed to be, of course, being only 13 weeks old.)

Sam and Kana

Samuel in the back window of my car on the way home from Pet Smart.

The three of them playing under the water maple tree where I'm trying to turn a bare patch with lots of roots into something pretty with some fossil-encrusted rocks and plants -- it's still a work in progress, though!  Please ignore the weeds  (some of the things that look like weeds are actually live-forever plants!).  See the little pink flea comb?  That's Ranulf standing; he's bluer than Kana, and Kana has some brown on her.

And now that I feel like a new cat has chosen me, I can bring myself to admit something it hurt too much to write about here until now, even though I know that my J-Land friends would be understanding and sympathetic.  My beloved Freedom died a while back.  She was absolutely the best cat I've ever had, and I miss her terribly. 

Perhaps I'll post a picture of her in time, but it will be in an entry all for her if I do.  She was so smart and so special.  She was only 6 years old, but she got sick and died before I could get her to the vet.  I believe it was just a virus that worked fast, perhaps one that affected her heart.  One day whe was fine, and the next she was gone.  She was up-to-date on all of her shots, but she was off her feed for a few days, then suddenly she got lethargic and was breathing strangely.  I don't know.  It's very hard to accept when you don't know what happened.  She had a really good life, though, and she was absolutely THE BEST Friend I've ever had in a cat.

I've had to grieve carefully.  Eler Beth watched me carefully for more than a week to make sure that I was alright.  She still has a problem expressing grief, so I tried to set a good, healthy example for her, letting her see me cry and be sad, but not burdening her with my own grief too much.  I remember how she took it all on herself when my Father died, and instead of doing her own grieving when she needed to she gave herself the job of comforting me -- not good for a six/seven-year-old!

Anyway, I'm formaly saying goodbye to my Freedom now, and I thank you for letting me do so here.

My Mom with the Kids

I need a new camera.  These pics are horribly grainy, but they'll have to do for now.

Andrew, My Mom (Eler), and Eler Beth at my Mom's house on July 19.

I like the way the kids are smiling in this one.  Andrew is almost 19, Mom is 84, and Eler Beth is 12-1/2.  If you look closely you can see the cyst on the back of her left wrist.

In the background of this photo is the portrait that a friend of ours, Monica, painted from a photograph of Mom and Dad.  Also the two round paintings of cedars and broom sedge were done by my sister, Barbara.  They look like they are photographs, but she painted them.

This is Andrew and Eler Beth with my sister Maxine who was in visiting from Florida (she'd kill me if she knew I was putting a current photo of her on here!!).  In the background you can barely see another painting my sister Barbara did.  Someday I need to get a good close-up photo of that one.  We're hoping she gets her web site up and running soon, and I can show off her talents to all my J-Land buddies!