It is raining here now, pretty steadily, but for most of the day it was bright, warm, and very, very breezy. We may get some t'storms tonight, and as warm as it is, I guess we may have to watch for tornados. I let Eler Beth spend the afternoon in the yard playing with the dogs. They needed the attention, and she needed the sunshine and exercise.
I piddled around on the computer and did a little housework and made a really tasty dinner.
I had to run out for something I was out of, so Eler Beth and I went to a local small grocery. We were in line behind a gentleman who wore very dark glasses and spoke of his granddaughter, although he really didn't look that old. I figured he was probably on social security and possibly some time of disability or pension program. He paid with a debit card and when it didn't cover the amount of his purchase he seemed surprised and said he'd called the bank just before he'd left home and was told his balance was $184.00.
His purchases rung up to about $150.00, so he told the cashier what to take off to bring his total down to the $129.00 the computer was telling her was in his account. I didn't mind waiting. He was very apologetic and obviously embarrassed, and he kept saying to me and Eler Beth, "I'm so sorry, ladies." We assured him it was okay. A manager had to be called to take the items off, and there were problems with that so it did take several minutes.
There was an elderly gentleman behind me with his cart of groceries. Just as the cashier and the man in front of me had finished getting his purchases sorted out, the old man behind me said, "Yes, if we could hurry it along a little bit! I'd like to get out of here!"
Eler Beth actually gasped, and she and I both looked at him. I gave him a very level, frowning look, and he looked away first. Then after I gave my attention back to the cashier, and while the man in front of me was apologising once again and putting his bags in his cart, the old man behind me growled, "Some of us have g..d.... places we need to go and don't have all g..d.... day!"
So I gave him another look and frown and said, "Please don't use that language in front of my daughter, sir." And again he looked away first, but he never apologised. I assured the man in front of me that we were fine, and not to worry about it.
Eler Beth was livid. She talked about it all the way home. "I'm glad you said something, Mom, and gave him a look!"
I asked her, "Did I give him a look that would haunt him forever?"
I think I did!
15 comments:
Eler Beth has more decency and compassion in her little finger then some grown ups do in their whole body. People like that man just make me shudder. Paula
I am so tired of rude, obnoxious people -- we have more than our share in Florida for some reason ::sigh::
Have a great week Lori! Martha :-)
Good for you people are so rude, and don't seem to realise the bad example they set to the younger generation.
Yasmin
xx
No matter the man's outlook or situation he had no reason to take the Lord's name in vain in front of Eler Beth. I'm glad you "looked him over" real good! And three bravos for telling him not to use that in front of your daughter!! - Barbara
He was lucky he only got a look that put him into his place...if it had been me...I prolly would have verbally took him out...LOL...God Bless...hugs to Eler Beth....and you....Ora
I am so glad you said something to that intolerable man! Not enough men these days have respect in front of women and children; I think this is a big part of American demise. I remember when I was a little girl men never would say things they say nowdays in front of a lady. I am so glad you stood up to the growling man and I think I might have done the same thing!
Lisa
Good for you!!! That poor gentlemen in front of you...
be well,
Dawn
I am so glad you gave him "the look" and that Eler Beth knew that he was rude. You are such a good exanple for her. Young girls need women to step up and you did. Anne
Every once in a while there are those that are out there that need "That Look" that should haunt them for the rest of their lives. What a smart cookie you have on your hands. Take care and enjoy your day,
Katie
I hope you did. Lori, you are too kind, lol You should have lifted out some bread from the trolley and gave him a swift tap to the head! Now doesn't that make you smile? ;-) Love Pam xx
Hehehe...and kudos to you for speaking up for your daughter. ;) C.
Oh my! That is horrendous language! And especially in front of a young lady! Patience is truly a virtue.
God bless-
Amanda
Good for you for speaking up. Why do people have to be so...surly? The guy felt bad enough already, and you tried to reassure him that it was okay, but the butthead behind you had to be mean. Is Eler Beth your daughter? (I'm fairly new to your journal.) Even at her young age, she knew that the guy was being rude, so good for her, too.
Beth
You did well, telling off that impatient customer.
How cruel of that geezer...the poor man was probably humiliated enough without that. Good for you with "the look".
Lisa
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